Brought up by a deeply spiritual Christian woman, I was never taken trick or treating.
We were allowed to have a small party to ourselves, dress up, apple bob, eat donuts from strings pinned up over a door way & we were even allowed to raid my mums spice rack a make 'potions' (at least I think we were, we certainly did it regardless).
Trick or treating was considered begging at best, theft using fear & intimidation at worst.
As I became an adult, Halloween still never really hit it off in my life. I don't watch horror movies because I'm a giant wuss, so all the macabre and scary stuff just doesn't have a place in my head.
However, now I have children.
There are things I've done every single year, I always carve a pumpkin. I carried on going to my Mum's house to bob for apples and eat donuts.
Over the past few years I've started to make sure I have a bowl of sweets for the neighbourhood kids when they come round, and I've started to build up a box of decorations, bought from the supermarket during regular food shops or bought in sales at the end of the season.
Each year has been a conscious effort to make more of the season and this year, thanks to Pinterest, we made decorations together and had a Halloween dinner the night before.
Over the past few years I've started to make sure I have a bowl of sweets for the neighbourhood kids when they come round, and I've started to build up a box of decorations, bought from the supermarket during regular food shops or bought in sales at the end of the season.
Each year has been a conscious effort to make more of the season and this year, thanks to Pinterest, we made decorations together and had a Halloween dinner the night before.
This
year we were invited to a party at a friends, after which we all went
trick or treating together as a group. The kids were on strict
instructions to only knock on the doors of decorated houses, and each
time the door opened one of the parents would apologise for the amount
of children present.
It's
funny. We watch so many American TV shows & movies, where Halloween
is huge, and it has changed here so much in the past few decades, but
it still felt a little awkward to me. I don't know if, as a 'door
opener' you're supposed to pretend to be scared by the children in their
costumes or what, but it defiantly seems that us British types haven't
got the whole thing just yet.
Sadly, because we were out all night, my bowl of sweeties went un-trick-or-treated. What a shame.
We
went to bed that night feeling quite proud of our boys who only had a
few of their treats (self discipline at 4 & 5, how unexpected), but
when I got up in the morning I found two boys downstairs sat on the sofa
next to two empty buckets and a lot of sweetie wrappers. Never mind.
Bean with his decorated biscuit at Un-School. |
Ed decorating a biscuit at Un-School. |
Ed making chocolate spiderwebs. |
Bean eating a spiderweb. |
My attempt at chocolate spiders. |
My dodgy attempt at sausage Mummies, as seen here. |
My creepy eyeball jelly did not go to plan. |
Yummy meringue ghosts. |